Cherish Your Family
If you live long, you will realize that you may not always see eye to eye with your family members. There may be many disagreements, arguements, fall out, misunderstandings, feelings hurt and disappointments. But we must learn how to wear these emotions lightly and not to allow them to take us into capitivity and suffocate your heart.
This is why Jesus told us "In your anger do not sin. Don't let the sun go down on your anger." Ephesians 4:26 ISV
When you are harbouring anger in your heart, and you keep holding it in your spirit; you will never know when you may lose a love one, or something may happen in your life. God allows us time to set things right with family and love ones. Don't keep going on the path you are on and have regrets. Let it all go and give it to Go
Don't lose time you could have enjoyed being happy with them because of your broken spirit that will not allow you to let go of the pain and forgive and let God heal you and draw you and your family member back together.
There are two many broken homes, broken relationship and we must learn how to come together in unity and put the past behind us.
God wants us to have peace and joy. Family is a unit that God set up and desires for us to love one another. There is somethng about family being knitted together. There is a bond that brings forth a connection and love that surpasses any misunderstandings, heart aches and trouble that can arise in the family. When you really love someone, what they do may hurt you but you never give up on them.
As mothers we love our children no matter how much trouble they get into which is so amazing because it is something God has planted inside us to help us to love them inspite of their mistakes. This is what God does for us, he love us inspite of our failures, struggles, misunderstanding, evil ways he claims us as his and he waits patiently for us to change. We must do the same with our family members,
Spend time with those you love because when they are gone you can not recover the lost time. Time with those you love are a treasure of gold You will have good memories of them to reflect upon when they are no longer with you. You never realize what you really have until you lose them.
Love covers a multitude of sin. When we learn to walk in this scripture we will not be so quick to hold grudges, hate someone because of misunderstandings or separate ourself and isolate ourself from fellowship with them because we disagree with what they have done or said. We must learn to disagree but still stay in fellowship with one another.
As you get older you will find friendship are far and few. Being alone and loneliness will plague you once you stay in isolation for a long period of time; and the enemy will keep plaguing your mind with negative thoughts that you will be alone and sad. Remember he does not want you to be happy. Break the chains and allow love to flow in your heart again.
Spend time with family, forgive and forget the things that have made you miserable and spend as much time as you can with family and enjoy them.
Famiy and time is precious. Appreciate who God has put in your life and love them beyond their mistakes and beyond your heart aches. Agape love must reign in our live and we can ony have it when we act upon his word and let it saturate our hearts.